Friday, June 19, 2015

Getting Better All The Time

The response from the June 2 interview with NH1 News was overwhelmingly positive. I was contacted with praise from as far west as Montana and as far east as Great Britain. The Caitlyn Jenner Vanity Faire cover and tv interview timed perfectly with my annual talk at Southern New Hampshire University, which was on June 3.

The professor shared an e-mail that she had received from one of the students. I'm currently awaiting any other feedback from the students, but this one was shared with me special.


Good Evening Professor,

I had wanted to thank Cynthia for coming out tonight to talk to us about being transgender, but I had to run out the door.

She is an exceptional person, and her emotions and feelings were definitely apparent. I only wish her the best of luck in everything she does. She is an inspiration for everyone, not just transgender people. If she can accomplish what she went out into the world to do, then so can anyone else! (Only in a positive way, of course). Thank you for having her come in. I have truly learned a lot and will be passing on the message to others including family so that we will be all knowledgeable on on this particular topic of Transgender.



I shared the above with my friend Jennifer. The nice girl that I had met in Montreal back in March of 2011, when I was at Dr Brassard's with my friend Karyn. She responded with the below reply.'




I actually had a coworker come up to me this week and talk to me about this girl from NH who was on the news talking about being transgender. They said it was very well done, I think her name was Cynthia.  Me -no way!  I know her, she's awesome. One of the best people I've ever met. :-)



Proud of you, I don't necessarily think transitioning is brave, but I think doing what you do certainly is. You're out there educating, making a difference. All the shy girls like me totally are in awe, and owe you a great deal of thanks :-)


The above is responses are precisely why I surrender my privacy and humility, to help create a better, safer, more educated future to for those following that are suffering from the same internal struggle as I had for so much of my life.

Things are getting better......in fact, I never realized that being transgender would be so 'cool' or so 'trendy' 

Thursday, June 4, 2015

NH1 News and Caitlyn Jenner

Tuesday I arrived to work later than usual due to a scheduled doctor's appointment. As I was walking back from letting my boss know that I arrived a co-worker stopped me and asked if I was tired of hearing about the Caitlyn Jenner Vogue cover. Indeed I was.

Within twenty minutes I got a call from Vanessa at NH1 News asking if I would be willing to be interviewed about the cover. I wasn't sure I would be able to, but Vanessa offered to have the reporter come to my employer for the interview which would only take a few minutes. Vanessa knew of me because she had been employed at The Nashua Telegraph  and had a hand in my stories that ran back in 2008. That I was completely agreeable to and two hours later Celine McArthur was setting up the camera in my office.

Thankfully I dressed business-like that day, unlike the shorts and t-shirt I had been wearing when we had a heatwave the week prior.

The below is the results.



Jun 2, 2015 7:07 PM

Becoming Cynthia: Transgender NH woman reacts to Caitlyn Jenner cover story

NH1 News
It’s the picture and story that’s taken America by storm.
We’re talking about the Vanity Fair cover story, “Call Me Caitlyn.”
Bruce Jenner - now Caitlyn - is sharing her transition from a man to a woman, in part, to give us all a better understanding of what it means to be transgender.
NH1 sat down with a life-long Granite Stater who knows exactly what Jenner’s going through.
“She looks great, she looks happy, much better than I would have ever anticipated, and I’m really happy for her,” Cynthia Tebbetts said.
For 50-year-old Cynthia Tebbetts, transitioning from a man to a woman was the best decision she ever made.
“Because, honestly, if I had to go back to being John, I’d be dead within a week,” Tebbetts said.
Instead, she’s a successful professional woman with a sense of humor.
“I don’t listen to Bette Midler or Cher records," she said. "I’m not into gardening. I’m a punk rocker who loves hockey and auto racing. I mean, that’s not what you would expect.”
It’s also not what her bosses at Cummings publication printing in Hooksett were expecting 10 years ago, when she - known as John back then - broke the news.
Fortunately, they supported the decision of transition.
“Of course, I did it the right way," Tebbetts said. "I didn’t just pop in one day and say, ‘Oh, I’m changing my name, I’m now going to be Cynthia.’”
Cynthia shared - and continues to share - these pictures and her experience with friends, colleagues, even college students at Southern New Hampshire University every year during a special lecture.
That’s when she made a realization: “You know what? I’m not alone. There are other people out there like me that are experiencing the exact same thing.”
While she doesn’t know exactly how many transgender people live in New Hampshire, she believes - based on feedback from the SNHU students - that number is going up.
“The first time I did it, I asked the class how many people knew someone that was transitioned or transitioning," she said. "I think there was only two. Every year that I’ve spoken, that number has grown dramatically to the point that where it’s almost 100 percent."
Cynthia hopes her story, like Caitlyn Jenner’s, will continue the local conversation about what it means to be transgender.
The first thing NH1 News asked her was, "Did you think when you were having surgery four years ago, that we would be trendy?"
Tebbetts laughed.
"Absolutely not.”